Qualities in my partner(s)
I put it out in the universe and wrote out a list of qualities I want/need in my partner. And the next day I met my wife! My list has evolved and now it represents myself. How can I want these qualities in my partner if I am not them myself? and now being open to poly I realize this list can be a fit for more than one person. Here is my list:
Big heart - sees the good in everyone and opens my parents eyes to see that love is love
Confident - in all areas of their life, free in all areas of their life
Open minded - wanting to try everything at least once
Smart - street smart and always reading and enriching their life
Challenges me - to face my fears and step out of my comfort zone
Stubborn - never quits
Funny - makes me roll on the floor laughing
Thoughtful - pays attention to the little things, knows how to make me smile or what gets me excited!
Big Dreamer - wants to make a difference in this world
Spunk/sass/scrappy - won't let people walk over them, not a push over
Active - takes care of their physical well being
Grateful - to be living life and not settling for good enough
Adaptable - dress up, dress down, be a super hero and every day down to earth person
Humble - knows their worth without saying anything and people know it too by the actions of their life
Patient - understands delayed gratification
Leader - one that walks along the path to guide, not in front
Amazing infectious smile
Eyes that I get lost in
Someone I can play fight with!
If you fit this list, maybe we should...no wait, "should" is the biggest swear in my vocabulary. So let me start this again...if you fit this list...let's talk!